The appropriate answer to this question and the one most women would agree with is: men lie, men cheat, men do not respect women, men are pigs, dogs, Dbags and it’s their entire fault! In a way this is accurate however, the main reason women are so insecure is because they lack self esteem!
When a man approaches a woman it’s because something physical about her caught his attention: the hair, the smile, the body, etc. if a man still continues to talk to that woman, it’s because he thinks she not only has a physical attribute that attracts him but also is a pleasant person to be around [or he wants to get laid].
Now after that initial encounter and a first date, if he still wants to go out with a woman, it means he is really interested. It’s not even only about sex anymore [although it still may] if he’s putting an effort into it.
Bottom line is, the man will; not pursue you if he didn’t think it was worth it, even if he’s a loser, a d-bag, unattractive, etc.
If a man is investing his time on you, it’s because there’s something about you he likes and if he loses that interest it’s either because he got what he wanted from you –sex- [which it’s not his fault if you gave it to him or because what or who he thinks you were was not true[to him].
If the man continues to go out with a woman it’s because he really likes her. The male species isn’t meant to attach themselves and settle. They are reproducers and that’s what they mainly do. So if he settled for you, it’s because you mean a lot to him.
But then some women freak out once a guy picks them to date exclusively, and start to make all kinds of mistakes such as compare the new guy to the last guy who cheated on her and lied. They start to question, try to read texts messages, look at his friend’s on facebook and cyber stalk him, try to find out if he’s really with his buddies or with someone else when he’s out. OK, even if a guy likes you, he can only take that for so long. It’s not worth to go through all the frustration to be with someone. No one would like that.
Every man is a new experience. People need to let go of past experiences and experience each one as what they are: new. Not one person is exactly like the other and every human being makes mistakes. Lack of confidence will drive people out of your life. If he’s with you, it’s because there’s something about you that he really likes that makes him put up with all other things he doesn’t like.
If he looks at other women, it’s normal. All men do! Be proud that you’re the one he’s going home with. Yes, you are allowed to be jealous [the cute type that makes them feel like they are important to you] but not the psycho one!
If he cheats on you and has not left you, it’s because he still likes you more than whoever he cheated on you with. He might be looking for a replacement or he just got bored and wanted to experiment something new. It’s up to you to accept it or not.
But the main thing to remember is that no one belongs to anyone. If he left and will not answer your calls and/or texts, that’s it, he’s gone. There is nothing you can do that will make him come back. He might for the sex but not for the relationship.
Women really need to stop going after the men, women need to be more confident. If he won’t answer your calls, honey, others will. Move on, there’s no such things as “the best guy I’ve been with”, or “the best sex I’ve ever had”. The rabbit could give you the best orgasm ever and it’s only a toy! ;)
He doesn’t call you back, then don’t call him until he does it. Don’t text, don’t try to find out where he is or what he’s doing. If he wanted you to know he’d find a way to let you know.
What women don’t realize is that the fact that they go after these Dbags enables the Dbags to keep doing what they do.
Be confident! Have your self esteem up so high that no one can ever reach it. There are plenty of fish in the sea and no matter how long it takes, you will find another one, maybe even better.
Some women are not physically attractive but what attracts men to them is their self esteem. This is why you wonder why such a hot guy is dating such a "fat" girl while you got such a hot body. What’s the point of being so hot if you don’t value yourself or have no content?
Nobody likes insecure people. We need to be the first and the ones to believe in ourselves because the truth is, no one else will and if they do they will doubt it until you prove them right, or wrong.